How Do We Mend The Wounded ?

[Aquila]

I just just love and forgive. If they show godly sorrow try to treat them as though they never fell.

Also, let the past be the past and NEVER mention it. I know a man who had struggles and was continually asked how he was doing with "the issue". He was never able to shake it or put it behind him and move on.

Of course if they are in leadership they may need to be ministered to for a while before being allowed to minister again. If they feel frustrated during this time, advise them to write articles or sermons to keep filed for when they're on their feet.