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Old 06-30-2007, 11:30 AM
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Not always. My issue is this. If your assembly doesn't have a standard on it, and you want to dye your hair, do it. It is between you and God. I don't agree with it, I think it is vanity. But I do have a BIG problem, when a lady is part of a specific assembly that holds to the belief of not dying the hair, and the women just go off and do what they want to anyways.

In my church, anyone who is in "ministry" of any kind (including the choir) has to sign a paper stating that they agree with specific standards, and as representatives of the church, will uphold them. MANY of the women in my church have taken to dying their hair, despite what they agreed to. One particular lady dyes it so much, that her hair is brittle and looks like straw, and every other month is a different shade of her choice color, and she LIES and says she doesn't dye her hair.

It is fake. Do what you are going to do, but don't be a FAKE.

That is the issue that I have, and it is certainly not because I want to dye my hair. I like it just as God painted it with His brush, shiny ones and all
I have more of a problem with a man suggesting a women needs to dye her hair then a women having vanity.
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Old 06-30-2007, 04:56 PM
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Oftentimes I find that its Vain men who want a young babe on their arm, therefore a woman feels inferior. Then she starts dieting and dying in order to please an old man going through his second childhood.
It shouldn't be this way if we were striving to please God rather than please ourselves.
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Old 06-30-2007, 08:52 PM
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Not always. My issue is this. If your assembly doesn't have a standard on it, and you want to dye your hair, do it. It is between you and God. I don't agree with it, I think it is vanity. But I do have a BIG problem, when a lady is part of a specific assembly that holds to the belief of not dying the hair, and the women just go off and do what they want to anyways.

In my church, anyone who is in "ministry" of any kind (including the choir) has to sign a paper stating that they agree with specific standards, and as representatives of the church, will uphold them. MANY of the women in my church have taken to dying their hair, despite what they agreed to. One particular lady dyes it so much, that her hair is brittle and looks like straw, and every other month is a different shade of her choice color, and she LIES and says she doesn't dye her hair.

It is fake. Do what you are going to do, but don't be a FAKE.

That is the issue that I have, and it is certainly not because I want to dye my hair. I like it just as God painted it with His brush, shiny ones and all
Just a question....why is it that dyeing hair is fake, but wearing deodorant and perfume isn't?

I mean, that's not disagreement, but it seems we pick and choose what 'fake' is and ignore other things we do to prevent the 'au naturale' appearance.....which I'm happy they do!
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Old 06-30-2007, 10:05 PM
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Oftentimes I find that its Vain men who want a young babe on their arm, therefore a woman feels inferior. Then she starts dieting and dying in order to please an old man going through his second childhood.
It shouldn't be this way if we were striving to please God rather than please ourselves.
Amen to that sister.I have been preaching BUBBA wants a BARBIE for years!!!
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Old 06-30-2007, 10:11 PM
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Well, I dye my hair, but it is a very natural color and lighter than my original one. It definitely makes me look younger than the gray would, and trust me, underneath I'm almost all gray! Actually, I don't dye it myself; I have it done and it is healthy and conditioned. Hair dye actually makes your hair have more strength and body; my hair is naturally very fine and thin. Dyeing it is good for mine. Some of those stories about hair dye drying out your hair, etc.--those are just old wives' tales. If you have it done professionally, and they don't use bleach products, it is really good for your hair.
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Old 06-30-2007, 10:18 PM
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Who needs a barbie ,I've got my holy hottie of a wife for my doll.
She gets better with age.
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Old 06-30-2007, 10:29 PM
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Who needs a barbie ,I've got my holy hottie of a wife for my doll.
She gets better with age.
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Old 06-30-2007, 10:34 PM
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Her gray don't scare me away.
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Sister Troubador ,I may go see my mother before too long ,perhaps we can see yall if we do.
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Great let us know.We had a fun time today.Didn't you say she lived around Pace?

A man waited until the last minute to buy a Christmas gift for his daughter. He rushed to the store and asked the clerk, "What can I get my daughter?".

The clerk said, " Well, we have Barbie dolls on sale now. You can get nurse Barbie for 19.99, or stewardess Barbie for $19.99, doctor Barbie for $19.99, or teacher Barbie for $19.99, and divorce Barbie for $260.99."

"$260.99 for divorce Barbie?!" the man exclaimed.

"Yes, sir because divorce Barbie comes with Ken's house, Ken's car, Ken's furniture..."
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