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Originally Posted by Trouvere
Yes it can be read but you do have to join. What I am getting at is that Brother Strange is among friends here. He can voice his opinion without being condemned can he not? Or is it that talebearers run and flame up trouble because they don't like what someone is going through or feeling over something? I am sure MB can take it. It just may make him think a bit.
Pro 13:18 Poverty and shame [shall be to] him that refuseth instruction: but he that regardeth reproof shall be honoured. Pro 27:5 Open rebuke [is] better than secret love. Ecc 7:5 [It is] better to hear the rebuke of the wise, than for a man to hear the song of fools.
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Originally Posted by Trouvere
BTW this forum is not public. We are members. Sorry but I disagree. The elder has a right to his opinion and is very grieved.
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Not public?!? It’s very much public. This isn’t CAF or Wordshare where you MUST register and become a member before being able to read posts. It’s very open where anyone, including friends and family of the man, could find and read the attacks against him.
Yes, people have a right to their opinion. It’s the good ‘ole USA. But
just because someone has the right to express an opinion, doesn’t necessarily mean they are right in doing so.
I’m convinced what happened was NOT in line with Biblical principles . . . including scriptures you posted. He should have gone to the man privately instead of hiding behind a keyboard to attack him in a public internet forum.
The scriptures you give do not support what happened in this thread. Each scripture bears an assumption that there is a face to face meeting during the process of the open rebuke or reproof. That did not happen.
And from all indication still yet, BS hasn’t answered the question that’s been asked multiple times. He’s stated that he was near the man he attacked, yet he has given no indication that he spoke to him about his concerns.
Read an excerpt of an earlier post
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Originally Posted by Brother Strange
I would be more than happy to meet with him or anyone else here in my Motel room or over a table in a restaurant...or in the lobby here. I would not invite an audience to the conversation.
I'm available. I'm not bitter. I'm not angry. I'm not contentious. In fact, I did rub shoulders with him tonight but he did not know me.
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Sir, that’s hypocritical. You say you’d gladly speak with him privately because you “would not invite an audience to the conversation.” Yet you have no problem getting on a forum and blasting away behind his back . . . and in front of a large audience.
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Originally Posted by Brother Price
Thank God for men like Rayford Strange, who are willing to speak the truth, take criticism, and keep on going. I pray the Lord is maturing me into that.
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Here’s the problem, BP, he DIDN’T speak the truth to this man. HE RUBBED SHOULDERS WITH HIM. How much better of an opportunity could you ask for!?! Was he hoping MB would read his mind and come to his hotel room!?!

I’m sorry if this offends, but I wouldn’t dare be alone with this man – especially in a motel room. I’d make sure to have at least a neutral party with me to make sure nothing was either taken out of context or lied about.
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Originally Posted by Brother Price
Bro. Strange has the right to go to a meeting. He thought, as I would, that this would not happen, but it did. Whether he goes to MB or not, that is between him and the Lord. But, I have learned to trust his judgment and discernment.
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I’m beginning to question his “judgment” and “discernment.” What he’s done is against the Bible and is just as bad and just as wrong as the spirit he claims to be familiar with.
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Originally Posted by Brother Strange
My schedule is so tight lately that I have very little time to spend here. However, I wanted to say that there was no malice or ill intent aimed personally at anyone. Yes, I also appreciate Dan standing up for a friend as long as he would keep a good attitude about it. I would be disappointed to think that anyone including Dan or the person in question would be so thin skinned as to be unable to handle any criticism.
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Let’s try it again . . . I’ll even send a PM with the question so you can’t lose it in the pages here.
Did you or did you not take the opportunity you had to speak personally, man to man, face to face, with the man you attacked on here?
Read your statement and attack against some other ministers:
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Originally Posted by Brother Strange
I looked carefully into the faces of some of the old Elders there. Some of them also recognize what I am talking about. Sadly, they are intimidated and are afraid not to walk in lock step with the rest...so for unity's sake, they choose to remain silent instead. They fear their own reputation above that of the interest of the kingdom of Gold. They treasure the fellowship more than fellowship with God.
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So again – since you criticized these men for not speaking with this man . . . did YOU? Did you take the opportunity you had to speak with him, or did you (like the men you criticized here) walk away, too afraid to charge him to his face. I mean your words are great . . . but I have a feeling it’s all they are. It’s all just mere words with no action to back them up.
But until you meet with this man and share your concerns, I'd be careful condemning others for not doing the same, else you fall into the same condemnation.
JMO (Which I have the right to say, but may not be right in saying . . .

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