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Old 10-19-2008, 01:41 PM
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Why it is so hard to be a leader

Thought this would be a thread that leaders could express their feelings and maybe what has helped us carry on from day to day...
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Old 10-19-2008, 02:11 PM
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Re: Why it is so hard to be a leader

Well, my husband and I stepped down from our church leadershop positions, but I think what is hard is taking false accusations and just bearing it while still trying to minister to some of the people who are doing it.
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Re: Why it is so hard to be a leader

That is very hard...but a part of leadership...Yeah, I know it hurts...
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Re: Why it is so hard to be a leader

For me, it's simple: nobody wants to follow!
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For me, it's simple: nobody wants to follow!
I find that hard to believe Tim-may, you are a natural born something......... Oh yeah, leader.
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I find that hard to believe Tim-may, you are a natural born something......... Oh yeah, leader.
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Re: Why it is so hard to be a leader

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For me, it's simple: nobody wants to follow!


Reminds me of the Maxwell maxim: "If you think you're leading but nobody is following then you're just taking a walk."
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Re: Why it is so hard to be a leader

Timmy, Paul wrote about you! You must carry his message...
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Re: Why it is so hard to be a leader

because you don't have anyone to follow!

Because the leader always gets smacked in the face with the spider webs first while everyone else watches and laughs as they do the heebie jeebies dance.

Because while no one else is willing to lead, they all want to tell the leader how to lead.

Because its not just you who might fall into the trap, its also everyone who is following.

Because there is always someone breathing down your neck.

The leader doesnt always know just how deep that hole is, or cold that water is, or hard the climb may be, all the followers have to do is watch and listen.
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because you don't have anyone to follow!

Because the leader always gets smacked in the face with the spider webs first while everyone else watches and laughs as they do the heebie jeebies dance.

Because while no one else is willing to lead, they all want to tell the leader how to lead.

Because its not just you who might fall into the trap, its also everyone who is following.

Because there is always someone breathing down your neck.

The leader doesnt always know just how deep that hole is, or cold that water is, or hard the climb may be, all the followers have to do is watch and listen.
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