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Old 07-04-2012, 11:53 PM
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As some would, when they battle the things they feel convicted of.
Oh, I would have had no problems there being there with just me and my wife, but my son really was not prepared, especially coming from the Midwest where certain things are not the norm.
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Old 07-04-2012, 11:54 PM
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RandyWayne,
That is no doubt the true father instinct coming out! It was in there
all the time. You just needed the son to come visit you for it to surface!

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Old 07-04-2012, 11:55 PM
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Oh, I would have had no problems there being there with just me and my wife, but my son really was not prepared, especially coming from the Midwest where certain things are not the norm.
I can certainly respect that.
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Old 07-04-2012, 11:59 PM
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RandyWayne,
That is no doubt the true father instinct coming out! It was in there
all the time. You just needed the son to come visit you for it to surface!

Blessings!

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Oh, I would be the worlds worst father if he lived with me full time, and even double that if I had a daughter, as far as what I would let him/her see or do (and not in a liberal way but in a deep ultra-protectionist way). LOL
I guess they words they would use for me when describing me to their friends would be "stifling!".
My daughter would be the only one who was not allowed to date until the age of 21 and even then her curfew would be 8 pm.

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Old 07-05-2012, 01:02 AM
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We're going to a beach and I do plan on taking my kids to the beach. This may or may not be mixed.
Honestly bro, it's your personal conviction on how you feel about mixed bathing. So whatever you decide, I'm certain you will be in tune with the Holy Spirit.

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Regardless most beaches and pools are never 100% private.
I would agree with this. Sometimes you can find a good spot in at a lake where you're enclosed and what not.

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So If am reading your post correctly then it only matters who is in the water. It doesn't matter who is around and may see you?
Negative. If I'm swimming, a female is nowhere in sight and if she comes in sight chances are she's either A) A park ranger, and B) A passerby. In either case, I would stay completely submerged until that person moved along.

My point is. I, personally, do not go mixed company swimming. If I do go swimming with the guys, the site has been previously scoped out and booked for our use only. Hope this helps!

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Old 07-05-2012, 01:08 AM
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People lust after people fully clothed.
Cindy, you are so correct.

But because someone is able and capable of lusting over someone who is fully dressed, does that then make it okay for everyone to dress half naked because people are gonna lust anyway? Heaven forbid that would happen.

I wouldn't want my wife (if I had one) to run around half naked and create a stumbling block for my brothers or anyone else for that matter. (And I don't want anyone messing with what's mine and vice versa.) I believe I'm in the book when I speak of this principle as well. (Romans 14:13, and I Corinthians 8:9. I also realize I Corinthians context is referring to Idol sacrificed meat, however the principle and the Spirit still applies to this.)
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Old 07-05-2012, 07:11 AM
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I swim with knee lengh shorts as do most men I see or board shorts and I go without a shirt for a few hours then put one on so I don't get burnt to a crisp...lol
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Old 07-05-2012, 07:49 AM
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I was raised in Los Angeles County on the beach. We typically wore beach attire and often went out in public in bikinis with shorts over the bottoms as typical summer wear. To this day one can see women shopping in the grocery or getting an oil change in this kind of dress in those places. I don't think the little skin shown in a pair of board shorts and a T will make the slightest impression in a beach community, let alone on the sand or in the water.

I am not advocating for nekkidness. I prefer people covered, I think God prefers people to be covered, and it certainly lowers the risk of skin cancer.
But I'd say if you are going to the beach, just don't sweat it.

When we go to the beach we just wear swimwear. Not the skimpiest string bikini but nothing that makes us stand out either, trusting that everyone's eyes are occupied elsewhere.

If you feel you must have special clothing for this rare event and don't mind spending a goodly amount of money for something you will hardly ever use there is great swimwear that covers everything. Check out sites that sell sun-protection clothing and swimwear for the best selections. You will even blend in at most beaches where there are now a lot of people that keep their skin covered for all kinds of reasons having nothing to do with holiness standards.
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Old 07-05-2012, 07:59 AM
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Oh... and as a reminder... If you have kept your skin covered for decades be extra careful to apply a waterproof sunscreen like Bullfrog often or you will burn like a crispy fry.
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Old 07-05-2012, 10:41 AM
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You may want to re think going to a mixed beach, lest you lust after someone. Even if you and your family are dressed in "modest" swimwear, there will of course be partially nude women there and if you wouldn't want your wife to be seen, then why would YOU want to see other women? Just wondering~
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