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Need godly advice please
Okay, so we have this neighbor downstairs who has 2 young daughters living with her; she's a single parent. I think she has a thing for my husband. And I think she might be jealous of me. She is very friendly towards us, we have helped her with little things here and there because the Lord puts it on our hearts. One problem though... About 2 mos ago or so I asked her that if she needed anything to please ask me and not my husband. She respected that for a little while. (I told her to call ME and NOT him) She had our phone #'s from before when she didn't have a phone we would let her use ours (we each have a cell phone, but mine is an out-of state area code) She kept his number but didn't keep mine. (she claims she had it saved under "neighbors") Now she has a house phone and a prepaid cell phone which is a good thing. But she never has enough minutes on her cell phone to call me and she doesn't have long distance on her home phone. Anyways back in January I let my husband take her to get some medication because I was sooo tired I didn't want to get up early. (I should have just gotten my lazy but up and went with them) Ever since then she slowly started asking him for favors again or needed items, and would give him food for us from food-box places from time to time when we needed it. (which is good) And then she would start calling him again so I blocked her phone #'s from calling his phone. (yes, he knew about it) Thing is, she is right downstairs from us when she calls his phone and could easily walk up the stairs herself to ask for something or tell us something. She came upstairs and asked us for a favor last night but only because she could not get a hold of us or him on his phone. I don't suspect him cheating on me at all because he is saved and he's italian and italians are very loyal. (plus he can't stand her even though he's nice to her) I unblocked her phone #'s from his phone yesterday 'cuz she needed to call me back to tell me something. I feel like my husband is being too non-chalant about the situation and I don't understand why he won't just tell her not to call on his phone anymore when she could walk up here! I mean, he wouldn't like it if another guy called me asking me for stuff and watching or listening for me to come down the steps so he could converse with me in private. I really feel like she doesn't care about what I say or think sometimes and I don't trust her. What do I do? What should I say to her? I truly want her to be saved and have love for her, I just don't like how she treats and talks to her kids. Oh, this may be important for you to know too: The first or second time we both talked to her outside she said we both seemed very content in our relationship.
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