One more thought - what about you and your husband switching phones? Let him have your old number and you take his number. Then if she does call, it'll come to YOU.
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Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of a battle ! ! ! !
I understand your concern. She should call your number, especially if thats what you requested. Its doesnt take being saved to understand boundaries and respecting a marriage.. Just remind her again she will need to call your number. If she doesnt comply, then cut her off. Dont answer her phone calls, no more favors, nothing. I know you care about this soul, but your marriage is top priority.
I would also have a talk with your husband to make sure your on the same page.
Whatever you do, please dont become one of those women who thinks every woman is after your husband. One thing i hated about pentecost was how every single woman was regarded with suspicion, whether she led a holy life or not. Just because shes not married dont assume she wants your man.
Update... I have read these to my hubby, and we have talked about it... Last night we were talking a little bit about it. He told me that when she texted him (a couple months ago- yes, he made me aware of it) that he did tell her when he was sitting outside and she was going into her apartment not to text him or call him anymore; to call me. (He thought he told me but he never did... we talk about so many things... lol!) So my apologies... I assumed he was being nonchalant when in fact he had already told her. Thanks guys... things are better now and some things on here were eye-openers for me. Have a blessed weekend brothers and sisters!
God is the only one that can turn this around. Not advice from others. We can say, do this and not that, etc, all day long.
If i were you i would take it to the Lord in Prayer & Fasting, and not stop till you Shake the Throne of God, and receive a Answer.
Btw Quote: "because he is saved and he's italian" & "( plus he can't stand her even though he's nice to her)
Saying those 2, Contradicts each other.
She should be praying and fasting anyway, regardless of whether this woman is in the picture or not. Honestly i would be more concerned about her husbands attitude than this woman. Any ground the devil has in a believers life is with permission. If their marriage is solidly rested in jesus christ than no woman, man or situation can prevail against it.
She should be praying and fasting anyway, regardless of whether this woman is in the picture or not. Honestly i would be more concerned about her husbands attitude than this woman. Any ground the devil has in a believers life is with permission. If their marriage is solidly rested in jesus christ than no woman, man or situation can prevail against it.
I Agree. Your absolutely correct! The husbands focus and salvation on God is the key to this whole problem. Because if he's not Focus on God he will Fall no matter what the Wife does or How many people give Advice.
Although the neighbor does need salvation like the rest of us, and unless I missed it, there was no mention that she was even interested in Christ or salvation. There was only a mention that the female neighbor was a single mother that had needs and that they felt led to help her out. And that she would go to the husband to ask for what she needed instead of the wife as previously asked for her to do.
Sometimes people use other people's benevolence just to get to what they are really after.
The neighbor's failure to go to the wife for friendship and for the needs of herself and her children and instead goes to the husband suggests a meddling in the marriage that should not be there.
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It is better to trust in the LORD than to put confidence in man. (Psalms 118:8)
Thankyou for all of your great advice. Needless to say God is AWESOME and he is working things out! Be Blessed not stressed, and if you're not ready then GET READY and STAY READY for the return of Christ!!!!
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