We as a society dropped the ball a long time ago when it comes to nurturing real men. We focused on women. Our churches are no different either. That's why I hit hard on the magic hair crud, where God's only protection for a man is his wifes uncut hair.
Watch TV and you will see that man is always depicted as bumbling, stupid fools or soft emasculated boys. Nor did we help when it came to defining marriages.
The 60s with free love and all that was the wrong kind of influence. Churches are afraid to stand up and preach against sin, preach real family values and order of creation.