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Originally Posted by Sam
It's not just overseas. With African American men in this country, some practice a form of polygamy by having children by several different women, living with different women, and being supported by several women. They figure that if it was good enough for father Abraham (a friend of God) and David (a man after God's heart), it's OK for them.
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Yes, what you say is the sad situation of some, and I believe this sort of thing upsets GOD greatly. If the man wants to make each one of these women his wives, then that is one thing, but if he wants these women to just call up at whim and have relations with, then that is a whole other.
There was a Black Hebrew Israelite on 20/20 though, in their show on polygamy a few months back, who had four wives (who all actually looked a lot alike, which smacks against the logic of "these men want lots of different women and whatnot"... because one almost looked like the other, so he wasn't getting "variety"), and they all lived together, and he owned a vegetarian restaurant and they lived in Chicago or Detroit I think. The women claimed that it is difficult to find a good black man, and so they found one and they live in a plural marriage arrangement, and are happy with things.
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Originally Posted by LadyRev
God "allowed" some things due to the hardness of men's hearts. However, God did not "approve" of everything he allowed.
Just as the bride of Christ is espoused to ONE husband, likewise the bride submits to ONE husband, not multiple husbands.
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Ok, let's look at various "situations" and see the approval and disapproval of GOD...
Relations between the unmarried- Disapproved of, plainly, in many Scriptures concerning fornication
Relations of married people with those other than their spouse- Disapproved of, "Thou shalt not commit adultery"
Homosexual relations- Disapproved of, as an abomination, and something done by the reprobate
Ok, so there, we see Scripture clearly disapproving of those things.
Is monogamous marriage approved of? Yes. Is celibacy approved of? Yes. Is polygamy disapproved of? No. The case is NOT clear AT ALL if we are to find a case for polygamy's disapproval. GOD allows/approves of people marrying or being celibate. When a man takes a wife, there is nothing that says he can not take another, and Scripture shows us where men took multiple wives. The only prohibition on a man with multiple wives, is in regards to being able to serve as a bishop/elder/deacon.
-Bro. Alex