If the "man of God in my life" is doing something wrong, even demanding that I do something immoral, unethical, or unBiblical, I'd be better off without a "man of God", and will have no respect for him no matter what "office" he holds. Some men carry a card but they don't have God's stamp of approval... or mine.
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Originally Posted by Thinker
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...I think if we are gonna sit under a pastor we need to agree with what he's teaching and support him. The moment we can not we need to join another congregation. it's in the best interest of all parties involved. But upon leaving we should take the high road and not trash the man.
Yes, even if he trashs you (which happens to often)
However, The days of Moses is over, and I won't keep my family in a crazy situation for one minute.
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I agree completely, except sometimes someone needs to speak up. If the man has molested children, speak. If the man is embezzling funds, speak. If the man is threatening or slandering people, speak. If the man is engaging in illegal activity of any sort-and you have the evidence to prove it, please speak up. Otherwise you become an accomplice.
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Originally Posted by Socialite
Stick around... and not sure how you've hung out in social settings, or even on AFF and have NEVER heard of an abusive pastor. "Testing, 1, 2, 3, 4?"
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Ummm... he said he'd heard, not that he'd never heard, Soc.