Changing Churches

Originally Posted by Kutless

I know you know.....that there are two sides to every coin. Which side do you think the majority of ministry is going to take. Wait three sides, because of late I have witnessed the whole neutral/don't ask don't tell brotherhood.

I do agree with you however, i was not there either. I do tend to aire on the side of mercy though and instead of the brash comment defending the do-no-wrong preachers club I may have just prayed.

thats just me though

I'm not defending do-no-wrong preachers, friend. I know there are freakolas out there... and I don't defend their right to be freakolas.

But I gotta tell ya... I'm not going to walk into a church and make that spiritual abuse thing a part of my conversations with the pastor... for a LONG time... until I feel comfortable there and with him...

If I never get to the point that I feel comfortable enough to talk about it, he'll never have to worry about hearing it from me because I won't be there anymore.