Quote:
Originally Posted by Scott Hutchinson
The marriage bed is the couple's business,as long as the marriage bed is undefiled what goes on there is the couple's business.
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The question that arises is... what defiles a marriage bed?
Lingerie
Varied Coitus Positioning
Lotions
Aides
Being rough
How to Guides
Baby talk
Dirty talk
Name calling
Fantasies
Dress-Up Fantasy
Erotica
... and the list goes on and on.
I know pastors who have forbidden
all of the above.
I know other pastors who have the attitude that anything that doesn't offend one's partner and aides in mutual enjoyment is acceptable and to be kept private.