Advice: The Single Christian

[Aquila]

Originally Posted by Dedicated Mind

Aquila, I think you are being entirely too hard on yourself. Paul had a thorn in the flesh. your thorn could be being single. God said, "my strength is made perfect in weakness, my grace is sufficient for thee". i have been divorced for 13 years and celibate for more than 12. I have the occasional bout with lust and internet porn, but these have become fewer and more time in between. if you are not 100 percent confident of your current mate, you should break up and be very selective waiting for the right one. occasional bouts with lust or porn are not going to send you to hell, God understands your heart, your situation and your limits. my advice is to break up, don't sweat the lust, forgive yourself for your weakness and wait for the right one or none at all if you can determine the benefits of singleness and learn to forgive yourself for your shortcomings. hee hee pun intended lighten up dude

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Thank you bro.