I'm sorry, I'm seeing alot of blank space and missed the verse that says the preached word of God is not authoritative. But, since ya' asked, here's a lil' diddy fer ya':
Obey your leaders and submit to them(I know that stings your ultra-feminist agenda & paradigm ), for they keep watch over your souls as those who will give an account. Let them do this with joy and not with grief, for this would be unprofitable for you.
For this reason we also constantly thank God that when you received the word of God which you heard from us, you accepted it not as the word of men, but for what it really is, the word of God, which also performs its work in you who believe.
Can ya' see the connection between obeying the preacher & the Word of God - lemme' guess - you don't see it eh' ?
Next?
Now, be careful what you post because you are going to have to backtrack now. Women were elders and leaders as well. I'm sure you are now going to show where Paul exempted men from obeying them, right?