well it depends on how much they beat me upside my head with their beliefs.....or how immoral they act around my family.
For instance I have a close family member who just thought it was cute and funny to use the N word insestantly. I explained in no uncertain terms that this behavior was simply not allowed at all, not even a little bit. Not even via changing from the N word to some other code word (wink wink nod nod). it came to a very clear very distinct stand off and the other person blinked.
we get along quite well now. they dont talk or act that way. i dont seek to control others, but i will not under any circumstances allow immoral behavior around my family.
__________________ If I do something stupid blame the Lortab!