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Originally Posted by triumphant1
I am thankful that your kids are involved and active...praise God!
I have discovered that the glass house syndrom is only as big as you allow it to be. I do not allow intrusions into my personal life...but I do not pastor in such a way as to intrude into the personal lives of the people either...
I am not afraid to say, "That is a private family matter."
But I also don't make unexpected house calls and it is pretty much known that I do not appreciate them either. I also do not share every thing about my family while I preach. Nor do I use them as "examples" in a "look at my kids" kind of way.
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I pastor country people and they like to drop by for coffee, we live nest door to the church right now. We are trying to find property though. I want them to feel welcome anytime.
I drop by their house anytime I want to and they enjoy the visits.