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Originally Posted by Pianoman
A lot of families are close, but live apart. A son or daughter goes off to college and gets a job offer in a different city.
Living in a family commune means one of the following:
1. Parents want influence and some control over adult children
2. The adult child has given in to guilt against moving away on their own.
3. The parental bond is stronger than the marriage bond.
4. The parents had firm control of the children growing up.
5. The children probably never left home to go to college. (local college only)
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Are saying it can NEVER be they just love and enjoy each other??????????
I do not argue that some of what you say no doubt is prevailent in some cases but I have known families that just love each other without control issues they are just close.