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Originally Posted by MissBrattified
I agree with the idea of marrying a new convert being problematic because of the maturity issue, but I think her "past" should be left alone entirely unless she revisits it. Even though it's public, I still don't think it should be dinnertime conversation for those of who are, essentially, now her fellow Christians.
Yes, and IMO that should be the only thing up for discussion. Hence my unofficial "title change."
As for the young man...this could be a case of what Dr. Laura Schlessinger calls "Damsel-In-Distress" syndrome. It's easy to assume that he's interested because of the industry she was involved in, but it's more likely that the pastor's son is trying to "save" her.
Regardless, I think this is their business, and I don't think it really belongs here. This is really, REALLY personal business. IMO.
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If you don't think it should be discussed here, why don't you lock the Thread, or better yet, just delete the whole discussion?