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Originally Posted by Pressing-On
Was anyone focusing on the daughter who shared her experience at "12-years old" having to process porn on her father's computer? 12 years old!
Can anyone pull up a chair and begin to think of what she had to process when she viewed what her father had been viewing and how that subsequently affected her life. Both scared and curious, how horrible her little heart felt? Did she ever get those images out of her head?
It isn't about cutting her father some slack. It is addressing the lackadaisical attitude that "boys will be boys". Hold him accountable, but cut him some slack, 'cause that what men do. Ugh!
Do men realize why many women dress like they do? I know there are some women who will dress provocative anyway, but "many" already feel objectified and so they fall into that horrible trap that men have laid out for them - I want eye candy!
The daughter began to notice that many men were like her father. "I learned to distrust and even dislike men for the way they perceived women in this way. As I grew older, I only had this message reinforced by the culture we live in. That beauty is something that can only be achieved if you look like “them”. "
That was the girl's point in the letter. Please stop making excuses for what men and society are doing to women's lives. That has to be a huge part of the conversation while we are talking about both sides of the story.
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I agree with your post, there is no excuse for a father that exposes his vulnerable young daughter to the abuse of women that is so typical of porn!!!
If men could see those women that for the very most part are abused and used, for what they are, it would be much harder to derive any pleasure in the viewing!!!
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