Gabby's

Originally Posted by QueenEsther

My husband had no problem going in with the first one - he really didn't know what to expect and he never complained about it or talked about it much - he did mention it was kinda gross Lol! But never said much and now he is on this kick of just how gross it was and how he really really doesn't want to see it all again. He said it made him look at me completely differently and it just grossed him out. Lol!!! I told him he wasn't about to get out of it now!! He made it through the first one and he will do the same for this one. He also complains that I about broke his hand.

What does it mean "he looked at you differently"...you know sis for many many many many years men were not present when the baby was born, it was considered a woman's thing as time passed they did at least have doctors, not that it was an improvement overall...you might want to really seriously discuss this with him, and don't force him to do something he really is uncomfortable with...if he could be with you up to and after the delivery maybe you could get someone else to help you with the delivery...your mom, a sister, or a close friend....