Sister, no one here has said anything about not protecting their family. No one! The question at hand is how that is to be done and what are the limits.
Also, do you really think a man's HIGHEST call is to PROTECT his family? Is THAt what the BOOK says?
Ecclesiastes 12:13 Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter: Fear God, and keep his commandments: for this is the whole duty of man.
Luke 14:26If any man come to me, and hate not his father, and mother, and wife, and children, and brethren, and sisters, yea, and his own life also, he cannot be my disciple.
A man that doesn't take care of his family is worse than an infidel. That's Bible too.
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