For those who want to know...RULES at my church!

[LaVonne]

Originally Posted by Blubayou

I think this is the positive power of the INTERNET. It has opened up a world to us where we can exchange information and create relationships. I was afraid this thread would turn into bashing the church, but I think the spirit of the people on this thread has caused it not to turn into bashing. I have shuddered to read some of the oppression some of you have lived under. My first pastor was very authoritarian. There were times when I would come home from church and feel like the congregation was the "whipping boy". Soon, I stopped going to Wednesday night services, because that is when he would take out his frustrations on us and lay down the law. I do not think I could ever sit under a controlling pastor again. I appreciate the opportunity to share in your experiences.

I had the same concerns as you, especially as we are still UPC. However, as I watched the thread, I was pleased to see that no one was bashing, but rather, sharing experiences...nothing wrong with that.

I'm sorry to hear that you once sat under a controlling pastor...I'm in total agreement with you...I'll never sit under one again either.

Our pastor has recently told us..."You've been delivered from Oregon!" WhooHoo!!!