For those who want to know...RULES at my church!

[Thad]

My time is limited this morning but i want to let these folks know that have shared their story with us, I am sorry that your credibilitiy has even been Questioned here. Especially in view of what you all have been thru already and then to have people come along and act like it was YOU, it was YOUR fault,just get over it. There are several reasons why this is happening. Just know that most of us are praying and supporting you on your path to healing
I think at some point we all have to heal from hurts or we risk losing our own souls. are the people that put you through this abuse really worth it?

I also want to say that most or all of these people have not wallowed in pity, excues or tried to garner support for being bitter. I don't think most of them are bitter . there's a few people that can snap right back and get over it really fast. for others, it will be a process, maybe a long one. I think we just need to show the love of God and compassion coupled with patience. It's OUR turn to show the fruit of the spirit .

another thing is, I am the one who urged sis truth seeker to make a list of the rules and what was enforced on them. So, if any of you want to point a finger of blame for this thread, point it ME.