ATTENTION all ATTENTION Hogs! - Page 4

AmazingGrace · #31 01-10-2008, 01:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Apprehended

AmazingGrace...

There are two types of people in the world...in a general sense. First there are the givers and then there are the takers.

You are a giver. The sister was a taker. For her own sake, you ought not to let people like her take advantage of you any more than you can help it. By allowing that, you are reinforcing her dependence upon all who are around her. These kind of people are so dependent prone that they will never grow up as long as someone is willing to pander to their weakness.

She should be shown other options and shown the door.

Just my opinion.

Oh believe me.. thats long over!!! The only reason she was allowed in my home in the first place is her husband tried to kill her and she had a 4 mo old baby whom we took care of for a long time while she was in the hospital... then it just continued... Right before she left.. she left us with the baby... then went and found a shelter.. we relocated her shortly after and told her she had to make choices or the baby had to go to cps... she has the baby now.. which probably wasnt the best choice but... due to the circumstances we had no choice either! But yes I was a major push over then.. there was already too much drama in my life to where I couldnt see the good from the bad! We learned real quick to say no when we were forced to take the pastorate there and everything else happened!

Apprehended · #32 01-10-2008, 01:57 PM

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ROFL Oh I love those!!! We had one in La... when we got there we noticed there were no drums in the church...odd but ok... so my hubby asked the pastor why... he said well they gave sis so n so a migraine so we took em out... so she left... actually decided she would go to POA ROFL... Migraines yea... so they put the drums back in.... 4 months later... she was back... some reason POA didnt work out for her in the sound issue dept. ROFL... We are gone from that area now but I hear they have again removed the drums LOL

I guess that DRAMA drove the drummer crazy. ROFL....

Anyway, there are those kind that can never be satisfied...regardless what you do or do not do.

There comes a time after a while that the Pastor just gets up by divine inspiration and gives those type a good old fashioned gospel spanking with the golden rule (r) After awhile 'nuff's 'nuff.

AmazingGrace · #33 01-10-2008, 01:58 PM

Ok now I am confused... dont know if yall were talking bout the situation w the lady who lived w us or the drum lady LOL I guess both would apply! LOL

Esther · #34 01-10-2008, 02:01 PM

After having a number of different pastors, I think five, only one that I know of did not have clicks.

I understand pastors are people and they should be able to fellowship with whoever they will. However, not to the extent it shows favortism.

dizzyde · #35 01-10-2008, 02:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Apprehended

I guess that DRAMA drove the drummer crazy. ROFL....

Anyway, there are those kind that can never be satisfied...regardless what you do or do not do.

There comes a time after a while that the Pastor just gets up by divine inspiration and gives those type a good old fashioned gospel spanking with the golden rule (r) After awhile 'nuff's 'nuff.

That was the case with my pastor, after that last incident he told her not to come to him with a complaint again, and if she ever left a service again (which she was doing when she got upset about something) she better be sick enough to be going to the hospital, or to never come back.

Rev · #36 01-10-2008, 02:09 PM

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Originally Posted by AmazingGrace

Ok now I am confused... dont know if yall were talking bout the situation w the lady who lived w us or the drum lady LOL I guess both would apply! LOL

Did you know that green persimmons will really make your mouth pucker up.

AmazingGrace · #37 01-10-2008, 03:30 PM

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Did you know that green persimmons will really make your mouth pucker up.

LOL did you know I am not really a blonde! LOL

I was just totally bombarded when I made those last 2 comments (like my kid got sick and my other daughter and nephew both reminded me I had science projects to help them with tonight due tomorrow!!! all at once and oh duh I totally forgot what I was even talking about then so you could tell me that penguins lived in my backyard and I would have believed ya!)

dont tell no one ive lost it... cuz they all already know! LOL