Gabby's

[Rhoni]

Originally Posted by whollyHis

Well, SIs...here's what I would do, but of course, I am a confrontationalist...LOL (pastor's words) So...you may not want to take this advice....LOL

You and your siblings and your mom, go to the dinner, but SIT elsewhere. Enjoy the food and each other, and forget about the lame excuses for ministry that dare let their ex wife pay their bills while they profess to be a man of God...

HOLD YOUR HEAD UP! YOU CAN SHINE...it may be Chad's wedding- but, it's YOUR money paying ...

Or...you could refuse to pay ANY of it...and not worry about it at all!!!!!

I am praying for you...

Wish I knew a tall, long drink of cool water that would accompany you that day...hmmm... let me think a while on THAT.

Sis.,

You know that walking in with a handsome man will not really help anything, for me or them. If I were a teenager I might play that game, but the fact is...I have Jesus to be my shield, high tower, my vindicator, my refuge, my strength, and my peace.

If God wills it to be so, one day a man will once again cover me...but I don't hold my breath...it will take a strong, but gentle and loving man to do this...and there are very few left in this world.

Your prayers will help more than anything...and I know you, being a woman, can empathize with me...and I wish I had someone...I thought about asking a friend, one volunteered and I turned him down, but if I must stand alone...I will stand. Now to do it with dignity, holding appropriate boundaries, and not let myself be taken advantage of...this is another story...please pray.

Blessings, Rhoni