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Originally Posted by scotty
But you just said that your preacher was not a clothesline preacher so why are you looked down on?...the conferences? then don't go. Simple answer huh. Is there not a church that has everything the UPC has without the standards? If so why would any of you bother with UPC? What is it about UPC that keeps them coming despite hating the standards?
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My pastor is NOT a clothesline preacher.
Neither does my pastor nor my first lady look down on me. The "looking down" comes from SOME (not all... not even most... just some) in the church that take it upon themselves to judge people.
As I said, there are some things I love about UPC, other things I hate. The things I LOVE are of GOD. The things I hate are of man. I have enough goose sense to separate the two.
Obviously,
there is more that I love about my church than hate, else'n I'd take your advice and just get out (and why do I get the impression that is what you would like me to do???) I'm sure if I had started out at one of the more conservative UPC churches, I WOULD HAVE "gotten out" a long time ago!!
You do seem to be very touchy on the subject of standards. I have a question for you.
Can you accept me if I don't adhere to your holiness standards?
Here's my thing. I promise not to make fun of the way you dress if you promise not to make fun of the way I dress. 'K?