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Originally Posted by ForeverBlessed
Well, he would have more problems than just the lack of intimacy issue.. lol but I kinda agree with it being an insult.. ya gotta be kidding me!!!
However, I remember seeing my ex husband's girlfriend before we were divorced and thinking "Lord, that is an insult..couldn't you have done better than that????" I avoided them everywhere... was tormented by it until I saw her and realized that even though I was now plus size and all...there was no comparison in the two of us...  Somehow I felt so much better. Then really all I felt was pity after a while.. He just has issues... she had even as many. lol
It took me a long while to realize that it wasn't looks or lack of looks...money or lack of money... or really anything... sin just has a way of destroying people.
Time heals all wounds... thank you Jesus.
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I am NOT a woman, however, FWIT my observation has been that most men (especially saved men) who have an affair, have one with someone less attractive than their wife.