Child Slaps his Mom on Doc Phil show-please watch! - Page 7

Rico · #61 06-05-2008, 07:47 PM

What's wrong with, "Shut up"? Would you prefer, "Shut your trap"? How about "Zip it"? Buncha liberals!!

#62 06-05-2008, 07:48 PM

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Originally Posted by rgcraig

I still feel that the kid was crying out for love. He kept making the point that she doesn't listen to him and tells him to shut up. I NEVER used "shut up" to my kids.

Also, she was controlled and didn't yell back at him because she knew she was being filmed. We don't know how she is when the camera is not rolling.

I don't believe the kid was right by any means, but just have to wonder if he's just needing some affirmation and love.

Oh he would have gotten P L E N T Y of love and affirmation's at my house.. my grandfather would have given him some of that "razor strap" affirmation.... Gosh "love and affirmation" sound ssooooo politically correct.. so ughhhh

He is loved when he is fed and trust me from the looks of it... he gets plenty of love.. he is loved when he is clothed and in his case that is XXX love.... he is loved when he is cared for ........ past all that baloney is he crossed the line and he better THANK JEHOVAH GOD HIMSELF that those cameras were rolling...

Kae · #63 06-05-2008, 07:48 PM

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Originally Posted by StMark

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3vQAS...eature=related

It's about 1 minute into the clip

Wow, he told her to shut up and she did. He is definitely the one in control.
She obviously threatens and waits to follow through until she is angry, which is the worst time to discipline a child. This gives spankings a bad name. She is trying to parent by being a bully. My guess is she doesn't have a clue on how to raise a child and is a very frustrated parent. Any time a person's stress level gets to high their true nature comes out. I don't think that the situation with with the daughter that died of cancer is the problem, but her true nature which is easy to keep hidden when not in stressful situations. The situation with her daughter brought her stress level to a point that her true nature came out.

#64 06-05-2008, 07:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Stephen Hoover

We teach our children that famlies vary on this, but "shut up" is forbidden in our home.

WHY ?????

Do you prefer the softer words of "Be Quiet? What's the difference between "Be Quiet" and "Shut Up" I mean geez this is worse than me and RICO arguing over the original Greek meaning of "tongues"

Rico · #65 06-05-2008, 07:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Dr. Vaughn

WHY ?????

Do you prefer the softer words of "Be Quiet? What's the difference between "Be Quiet" and "Shut Up" I mean geez this is worse than me and RICO arguing over the original Greek meaning of "tongues"

When did we argue over that?

Kae · #66 06-05-2008, 07:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Dr. Vaughn

Oh he would have gotten P L E N T Y of love and affirmation's at my house.. my grandfather would have given him some of that "razor strap" affirmation.... Gosh "love and affirmation" sound ssooooo politically correct.. so ughhhh

He is loved when he is fed and trust me from the looks of it... he gets plenty of love.. he is loved when he is clothed and in his case that is XXX love.... he is loved when he is cared for ........ past all that baloney is he crossed the line and he better THANK JEHOVAH GOD HIMSELF that those cameras were rolling...

Love is having time to really listen to a toddler when they speak and hear what they say. Love is paying attention to all that they do so you can correct them when they are wrong. Love is taking the time to correct a child instead of berating them for something they really didn't know they did wrong. Love isn't getting angry or upset when they do something that makes us want to blow our top, but give them stiff consequences that make them not want to do it again. Children want a reaction and anger is a reaction that is better than you being calm and in control. They will continue to do what gets a reaction from you. Don't react even though you want to. Self control, one of the fruits of the spirit, is definitely something you need in parenting.

Kae · #67 06-05-2008, 08:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Dr. Vaughn

WHY ?????

Do you prefer the softer words of "Be Quiet? What's the difference between "Be Quiet" and "Shut Up" I mean geez this is worse than me and RICO arguing over the original Greek meaning of "tongues"

Shut up is rude and disrespectful. Be quiet doesn't have to be soft, you can be very firm without yelling.

Rico · #68 06-05-2008, 08:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Kae

Shut up is rude and disrespectful. Be quiet doesn't have to be soft, you can be very firm without yelling.

Says who?

mfblume · #69 06-05-2008, 08:25 PM

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Originally Posted by rgcraig

I still feel that the kid was crying out for love. He kept making the point that she doesn't listen to him and tells him to shut up. I NEVER used "shut up" to my kids.

Also, she was controlled and didn't yell back at him because she knew she was being filmed. We don't know how she is when the camera is not rolling.

I don't believe the kid was right by any means, but just have to wonder if he's just needing some affirmation and love.

I just wonder how the kid got that way... the parents are the problem, I think. If he is like he is, it is her and her husbands fault.

mfblume · #70 06-05-2008, 08:26 PM

"Shut up" is not necessary. I agree.