Brothers before this thing gets out of hand and shut down let me say that noone is telling you that you should engage before church or that you are wrong for abstaining if you choose. The issue that most had was with how it was framed.
"some things of the old testament are worth observing for the sake of wisdom but I wouldn't expect everyone to be sincerely searching the presence of God in their lives."
And then you went on to say that it is common sense that if a couple engages the presence of God will not manifest.
That went well beyond just personal preference into critisizing those who did not hold to this. I just don't believe that the presense of God manifesting in one of our services depends on whether all of our couples...or even the fornicators abstained before church.
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