Seriously Rhoni,
This culture we live in is geared that way. It is the woman's fault. Period. That is why you should not have a sitution like an unmarried woman and unmarried man living together. There will be talk, there will be problems, and it will be the woman's fault.
Look at the Word.
Joh 8:3 And the scribes and Pharisees brought unto him a woman taken in adultery; and when they had set her in the midst,
Joh 8:4 They say unto him, Master, this woman was taken in adultery, in the very act.
Joh 8:5 Now Moses in the law commanded us, that such should be stoned: but what sayest thou?
Where was the man? He wasn't charged! It was the woman's fault!
Look at our culture! If a man goes out and has many relationships, he's okay! A woman goes out and does the same thing, whe's a harlot!
Even in the Moslem sharia law, just a week or so ago, in Pakistan I believe, a 12 or 13 year old girl was raped. She was brought up by the Sharia law, charged with adultery and sentenced to death by stoning!
That is why a woman should always be more careful than a man in gaurding her reputation.
It will always cost her more.