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Re: Living Arrangements
Rhoni, I don't know you personally and my only view of you is what you post. IMO, you seem to believe that the world is out to get you and it appears that you make it a self-fullfilling prophesy when it doesn't happen. This thread is a pretty good example of that.
You surely can't believe that 99% of the people who read your "lover" statement will not interpret this in the most commonly accepted manner LOVER is a word that has taken on the meaning of its most common usage _ and that is sexual
You appear to be intelligent and you must surely know that You remind me of Bill Clinton wanting to redefine the meaning of the word "is."
If you only mean what you say you mean by the term "lover" then why not use a word decriptive of that? You know that most people are going to associate a different meaning. And it appears that you want to provoke everyone so that you can justify new hurts. JMO. Don't invite hurt to yourself. When you send a written invitation out to the world to hurt you and misread your unclear intentions, someone is going to accept that invitation.
From your posts, it seems you may enjoy being the offended party. That cheats you out of a lot of joy in life and in conversations. Again, JMO based on what you post.
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