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Re: Living Arrangements
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Originally Posted by Rhoni
LOL. You take away all the fun!  BTW - Guys think they are so irresistible and they fool themselves. Every woman likes different things and if a man don't turn me on...he just don't and it is very easy to say "No", but then again...if he does turn me on...let's hope both of us are prayed up  |
If a man is your "lover", I would think he would also be a man who turns you on? In which case, it might be a good idea to not cuddle with him on the couch, for his sake if not yours.
Men can and should control themselves, just like women. But women shouldn't take whatever they want with no consideration for a man's feelings, knowing that they aren't going to give him what he might think he's going to get. Or hope. 
I know that women can be perfectly happy with a "cuddle", but that same "cuddle" to a man is a "tease." Ergo, it's not fair to tease a man just to get your cuddles in.
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