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Originally Posted by MissBrattified
So you had a good moral compass and chose to be bad anyway.
*shrug* Been there myself. 
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Sure! Not one was watching me and I was miles from home!
I will back up and say that I do agree with you on people being taught to live for the pastor and follow him, almost, without personal convictions. I was in that type of environment as a new convert at age 26. Nevertheless, I talked to God and He, alone, forged my path and put convictions in my heart. So, I can only blame an individual for resting on the hopes of a man. Perhaps, to be kind to some that have experienced that, I'm very sure it is my personality to not put my faith in a man alone.
My husband told me last night that he knew I didn't love him when I married him. I didn't know, all these years, that he knew that. We've come a long way!! I love him and trust him now!

He asked me why I married him. I said, "Because I thought that I needed to take care of you."
So, long story short - it wouldn't be me to put all of my trust in a man - ever. Just my journey and observations along the way.