I totally disagree with you - I have a personal situation myself and I have "moved on" but I have used the story with others that have gone through what I went through because I wanted them to know I understood Hopefully, I gave them helpful information on how I got through it - You can move on without forgetting. My situation made me stronger so why would I want to forget it - I share with others how it made me the person I am.
You are correct, but I was referring to those who merely continue telling the story to get advice but never take it. Sorry for the confusion!
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