Can you love more than one???

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Originally Posted by MissBrattified

I have to agree. That's where self-control steps in.

Feeling affection for someone is not the same as devoting yourself to them IN love, in a marital relationship. Too many people mistake feelings of affection or attraction for *love.*

So I would say that you can be attracted to or feel affection for more than one person, but you decide who you will actually love.

I believe that not every attraction is based only on feelings of affection, attraction, infatuation or lust. I believe that you can actually know that you love a person. It is inherent in man to love, therefore, it's a given that it is possible.

Where I differ with you here is when you say, "you will decide who you will actually love". I think it would be better put as, "you decide who you will be loyal to.