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Originally Posted by blueeyes
Being deprived is not always the case for adultery, there are great people who have given their all in marriages and yet you still find spouses cheating.Faithfullness is a matter of the the heart of each individual person and God.Tho two are united in marriage each person is responsible for their own salvation and committement to God and to their spouse.We can't control things people do, we can however control our reaction to it.
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I agree with you. But to begin the discussion, I think it would be good to pull out all scripture references and work from there.
I know a good many women who have spoken to me trying to complain only to find out it was their fault - depriving - for reasons such as - too tired, too busy, etc. Excuses they need to work on and not point the finger at the man. Just sayin'.....
But, again, I do agree on your point that we are all responsible for our own decisions and actions.
It is a very complicated issue at best. For my beginning contribution to this thread, I simply wanted to point out
I Cor 7:5 for discussion.