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Originally Posted by Rhoni
Williamsbaby...you are missed! I will have to add though, that I fear those of us moving on and getting married because it seems we remake our identity to conform to his identity [females]. I am not sure this is a healthy thing...I know it never has been for me.
The thing I fear the most is that I will no longer have my own identity and that it will be dependent on someone else. I just found myself and I don't want to lose me again...
Blessings, Rhoni
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Amen Sister Rhoni,
Strong personalities can swallow us up.When we first got married our pastor told this to my husband.He told him to let me be me and he has.Its been a great twenty years.I have been able to develop into something different than just a role.Wife,mother,girlfriend are just titles.I am so glad I have a name.lol..
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