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Originally Posted by CC1
Compensation is also a factor. As in; "If I can't wear makeup I will wear the coolest, best looking, shoes I can afford, sometimes ones I can't afford!"
If a person does not keep their heart on the altar and work on developing the fruit of the spirit in their lives this compensation can result in a spirit of "superiority". I have seen Pentecostal women dressed up to the nines in malls walking around with a haughty air looking down their noses at the "common" women around them that are dressed casually. I have also seen Pentecostal women dressed to the nines with big smiles on their faces and as welcoming and friendly as anybody on earth.
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It is this sort of thing that really messed with my head for many years. Here my family and culture I was raised in were condemned for pants-wearing and hair-trimming etc. but dressing to the nines and haveing a haughty air....no one would say "This is wrong".
It's not fair to put a young kid/woman through that. I got the Holy Ghost at 19.