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Originally Posted by nahkoe
What makes them over the top? Why is bondage ok, but pain isn't?
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Depends on what you mean? It's not uncommon for a man to hold his wife down by the wrists. Is that wrong too...even if it enhances the act for her?
Please note, it's about sensory deprivation. The inability to move is the relinquishment of control, submission, to one's mate. Often it fulfills a very important need... a need to be surrendered to the one you love and trust.