Ministries for women porn addicts

[MissBrattified]

Originally Posted by Pressing-On

I'm sure that the couples "role playing" are all saying they are having fun. LOL!

It's almost like drinking so that you can make it work, one more time. You may not understand what I am saying. LOL!

I think I just take issue with Christians teaching, that it can be an important part of the marriage bed, when in fact, I don't think it is.

Really, I'm trying to be careful with my words and extend our thinking a bit on this subject. A prostitute will role play to get through her trick. A "dancer" will do her drugs to get through the night of dancing.

Making myself look "sexy" in some way for my husband is not the same as playing a role just to "get through" a trick or drinking to "get through" a night of dancing. I don't have to tolerate sex. It's enjoyable. You're comparing apples and oranges.

I never said role playing was important. I don't think it's important at all. I would disagree with anyone teaching that it's an important part of a healthy sex life. What's "important" is determined by the two individuals in the relationship and by what fulfills the needs of each spouse.

I really don't get the entirety of what you're trying to say, and I realize you may not be able to articulate it on a public forum. Don't feel that you have to explain yourself to an uncomfortable extent.