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Originally Posted by jfrog
I agree with Ferd. Though when you are in the process of leaving it is hard to understand the other side.
The difference in Jeffery's approach compared to Ferds is...
Jeffery is saying yep all those people are just mean and nasty and aren't acting like they should.
Ferd is explaining why those people are being the way they are and saying that they are acting exactly the way they should.
At least thats what I am getting out of it.
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Re-read his opening post again. That's not what he said.
And I "understand" WHY as well. But I'm acknowledging his emotion at the moment. It's not about WHY. You could tell me WHY Nazi Germans felt Jews were dogs. I don't have to re-hash all that in every instance. It's just shameful and wrong. End of story.
This guy has close friends writing him off and praying for his soul. He's shocked. If your advice is a kick between the legs and a "MAN UP" bumper sticker, then more power to you.
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