I believe most of the people preaching complete abstinence (including self-gratification) got married the day after they graduated high school....

Which there's nothing wrong with, but with the amount of single people in their 30's and 40's now, those preachers can't even relate to what it's like for people who are single for a longer period of their life.... and I know that doesn't justify anything, I won't even share my views here on the subject beyond what I just said... it's not worth the time we would waste discussing it.
So why am I even here? I don't know, I can't figure out what cell phone to buy and I can't get a droid because AT&T butchered theirs...