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Originally Posted by RandyWayne
Oh Lord, that is probably the last place you need to go now. LOL Of course God could also mean for you to go -they will/could be so over the top with their HMH that you will no longer have ANY doubts.
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I'm seriously dreading it.
My husband is very set on the old paths. He told me tonight "Just do what you want, but I don't agree." It breaks my heart.
I don't understand. Why would the Lord show me something just so that it could make my life miserable and cause problems in my marriage? But I see things so clearly now.
I don't believe that the holiness standards are biblical. I don't agree with how people are treated in UPC churches when they don't follow them. I don't like the control and fear tactics that I see. I believe that we are basing our salvation on our works when we enforce such standards. No, I don't believe this is right.
Are these reasons enough to leave my current church? I don't know...and I don't want to move forward in any way without my husband, but he is digging his heels in and refusing to budge.
I'm trying so hard to be patient, but I don't know if I can do this.
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