Sex Scenes - Page 42

Elizabeth · #**411** 07-28-2010, 12:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Socialite

Very true.

And not only help him eliminate reasons, but to do our best as a loving family to remove visual pornography for our home. The more that is left there, it's like a mine field. All will be okay, until one fateful day. Images are implanted, they can build up and explode like a bomb out of the blue in the style of an affair that leaves in its wake beautiful, sexy brides all the time. They wonder "I don't get it. I gave him everything he wanted."

I've seen it. You've seen it. We all have.

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Originally Posted by *AQuietPlace*

I agree with this.

There is a lot in media that simply isn't wholesome. We try to be very discerning and careful. I can't write that out in black and white.... what we allow and what we don't.... but we try to have a discerning spirit. If something makes us start feeling very squirmy and uncomfortable, that's a real good sign that we don't need to be watching it. And I pray often that we don't override that feeling, until we no longer notice the nudging of the spirit.

Pressing-On · #**412** 07-28-2010, 12:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Elizabeth

I minister to women like this on a regular basis- i try to teach them to see themselves differently through the eyes of a loving heavenly father and they do not have to abase themselves like that any more. It is a work in progress- one that only God can do.

That has to be some healing process, Liz!

Socialite · #**413** 07-28-2010, 12:27 PM

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Originally Posted by *AQuietPlace*

I agree with this.

There is a lot in media that simply isn't wholesome. We try to be very discerning and careful. I can't write that out in black and white.... what we allow and what we don't.... but we try to have a discerning spirit. If something makes us start feeling very squirmy and uncomfortable, that's a real good sign that we don't need to be watching it. And I pray often that we don't override that feeling, until we no longer notice the nudging of the spirit.

Socialite · #**414** 07-28-2010, 12:29 PM

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Originally Posted by ILG

But I don't feel the emotion I feel when watching a love (not nude) scene is bad. It is emotionally stimulating. So, it's a hard comparision.

Without referring to my Every Woman's Battle book, I'll have to direct this post to a resident woman.

What about it is emotionally stimulating? What's going on in that moment? In what ways could that possibly compare to a man being visually stimulated to the point of desire and lust?