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Originally Posted by Timmy
So, it's like "what doesn't kill me makes me stronger"? That's cool. Then those beatings that will continue until morale improves -- they shouldn't even stop if morale does improve! The more the better!
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It's more like. Make the decision to get out of a bad situation. Decide not to be controlled by anyone and own your own life.
It’s perfectly fine to say "so and so is a bad guy. they did this and this and here is the proof"
it is not perfectly fine to run with woe is me and everyone is mean to me and my life sucks because other people make it suck.
These are very different things.
*disclaimer for the unstable. I do not advocate telling people who have suffered abuse to "get over it". I do however, encourage them to seek professional help and not talk about their real life horror on internet forums where no one can control the direction of the conversation
**Second disclaimer. The first disclaimer is a general announcement and is not meant to be directed at any one person in particular.
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