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Old 06-24-2008, 08:32 PM
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The Power of Influence

We are all impressionable.

I have only recently, at the pinnacle of middle-aged clarity, begun to realize just how many of the decisions I've made sprang from the influence of others.

Influence can be a powerful thing.

We are all changed by those who enter and exit the stage of our lives. Sometimes the change is imperceptible, other times the sphere of influence is so strong that the change is immediately evident.

A queer realization has begun to settle on me of late. A realization that I am the sum total of my daily interaction. A realization that I can be influenced in both positive and negative ways by my wife, my kids, my parents, my co-workers and - most importantly - those whom I choose to call my friends.

At first glance, this realization seems simple, and petty. A deeper look reveals stark truths that are sometimes unbearably painful.

I am the product of every screaming match my parents had in front of me. I am the product of every dirty joke my brothers told me. I am the product of every unsavory movie I have ever watched with friends or family. I am the product of every sermon I have heard, every song I have listened to, every newscast I have watched, every news clip I have read. These influences, for better or worse, shaped me.

I am impressionable.

So, once again, I find myself at the feet of Jesus asking Him, no begging Him, to be my greatest influence. To deliver me from myself. To reshape me in His image, an image that rises above any worldly influence I've let in my life.

Paul, who seemed to have some of the same struggles I do, said it best.

"And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things."

Philippians 4:7-8
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Old 06-24-2008, 08:34 PM
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Re: The Power of Influence

Oh we all need this Pastor Poster, Amen!
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I'm going to share this with my son. Excellent & timely post!
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Tit 3:2 To speak evil of no man, to be no brawlers, but gentle, shewing all meekness unto all men.

Psa 51:10 Create in me a clean heart, O God; and renew a right spirit within me.
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Good Stuff!!...The Right Stuff!!
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Old 06-24-2008, 09:03 PM
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Thanks folks.

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This is a faithful saying and worthy to be accepted!

The Devil is a great influencer....but Jesus is Greater!
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A queer realization has begun to settle on me of late.

Scary. I don't think I would have admitted this on a public forum.
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Scary. I don't think I would have admitted this on a public forum.
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We are all impressionable.

I have only recently, at the pinnacle of middle-aged clarity, begun to realize just how many of the decisions I've made sprang from the influence of others.

Influence can be a powerful thing.

We are all changed by those who enter and exit the stage of our lives. Sometimes the change is imperceptible, other times the sphere of influence is so strong that the change is immediately evident.

A queer realization has begun to settle on me of late. A realization that I am the sum total of my daily interaction. A realization that I can be influenced in both positive and negative ways by my wife, my kids, my parents, my co-workers and - most importantly - those whom I choose to call my friends.

At first glance, this realization seems simple, and petty. A deeper look reveals stark truths that are sometimes unbearably painful.

I am the product of every screaming match my parents had in front of me. I am the product of every dirty joke my brothers told me. I am the product of every unsavory movie I have ever watched with friends or family. I am the product of every sermon I have heard, every song I have listened to, every newscast I have watched, every news clip I have read. These influences, for better or worse, shaped me.

I am impressionable.

So, once again, I find myself at the feet of Jesus asking Him, no begging Him, to be my greatest influence. To deliver me from myself. To reshape me in His image, an image that rises above any worldly influence I've let in my life.

Paul, who seemed to have some of the same struggles I do, said it best.

"And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things."

Philippians 4:7-8
Excellent! This should be Church bulletin or Church magazine material. Maybe even the Herald!
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LOL!!! You should have seen that one coming from a mile away.
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