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[Ishi]

Originally Posted by jfrog

Threatening someone and then saying it was a joke to get outa it... and then asking how to get in contact with the person who you just threatened... Maybe your just not thinking things through lol.

What it sounds like to me is that you threatened him to try and get him to comply. If you were doing the threatening as a joke to just see what he would do that is one thing. But you pretty much just said it was to pressure him into doing what ya wanted. Then when things still didn't work out for you, you then called it a joke. A joke is a much different thing than what you did. When you made those threats it doesn't sound like you were trying to get a laugh out of the situation...

The real question we need answered to help determine if it was a joke or not, what would you have done if your joking threats got him to apologize?

I know it seems as though I tried to use the 'joke excuse' after it went too far; but, that is not the case.

In my mind it was two guys bumping heads.

I never intended for it to get out of hand.

It did. That's my fault. I want to make it right.

That's what I'm supposed to do...right???

It was a 'big hahahaha' to me.

Several of my friends were 'watching' the entire thing.

At the time, they thought it was funny watching him 'react' the way he did.

Regardless, of who is at fault, I take all the blame; and, I would like the opportunity to speak to this Brother about it; and, convey my apologies to him.

Forgive me for resurrecting something that happened so long ago; but truthfully, I thought after my final 'pm' to him everything was 'brought to light'; and, everything was alright.

I had no idea he was still upset over it.

I just want to make it right...that's all.

jp