One problemt is it can be hard for women to submit/obey their husbands when they are the bread winner. I know a church lady who thoiught because she made the dough she didn't have to submit. I'm sure it can work but think it would cause problems that have to be worked through.
In the case of my OP friend who is a SW Engineer, she is not from this country, she is Japanese I think, it's very easy for her to submit to her husband because of the culture she was raised in.
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In the case of my OP friend who is a SW Engineer, she is not from this country, she is Japanese I think, it's very easy for her to submit to her husband because of the culture she was raised in.
Yep, some cultures make it easier in that area.Not all have been americanized.
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A husband can't make a wife obedient, that is a heart issue that a man can't fix. Just as a women can't make a man love her as christ loves the church, heart issue again.
Sometimes couples can get it mixed up, bible doesn't tell men to make their wives obedient, but to love and cherish their wives. Doesn't indicate must wait til wife is submissive to do so. Men are trying to make their wives submissive when that's not their command, that's Gods area. Man can't fix rebellion in the heart of another person. Applies in reverse from wife to husband as well. She can't make him cherish her.
submit/obey are not bad evil words.
well said
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Let me add husband are to submit to what brings oneness to a marriage. Trampling on, disrespect, saying hards words or even "you suppose to obey" is not accomplishing oneness.
Winning your wife over doesn't stop with a marriage license.
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Today pull up the little weeds,
The sinful thoughts subdue,
Or they will take the reins themselves
And someday master you. --Anon.
The most deadly sins do not leap upon us, they creep up on us.
Last edited by Truthseeker; 10-05-2011 at 06:39 AM.
Let me add husband are to submit to what brings oneness to a marriage. Trampling on, disrespect, saying hards words or even "you suppose to obey" is not accomplishing oneness.
Winning your wife over doesn't stop with a marriage license.
Amen and Amen !!
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