How feminine is too feminine?

[Truthseeker]

Originally Posted by Amanah

recent studies have shown that the tides have turned and men are now under extreme pressure, moreso then women.

they are expected to be the tough macho bread winner along with doing their share at home, helping with the house and kids.

while at the same time women are working less hours outside of the home, while still expecting the man to take on more domestic chores.

so at one time, women were trying to do it all and failing miserably, now women are shifting back to staying at home and working less hours, while men are the ones trying to do it all.

there needs to be a compassionate balance, where both look at what they can best contribute and support each other the best they can.

I know one OP family where the women is a software eng and makes good money, the husband's job paid poo. they decided the best way was for her to work and him to stay home with their two small children. It was the best way for them to have the best possible life for their family.

One problemt is it can be hard for women to submit/obey their husbands when they are the bread winner. I know a church lady who thoiught because she made the dough she didn't have to submit. I'm sure it can work but think it would cause problems that have to be worked through.