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Originally Posted by coadie
I will use 2 ideas. One is role playing and the other is mimicry. When kids are studied in play time, they play roles they observed adults live. Our pastors boy is playing with drum sticks, preeching and trying to baptize various creatures.
One partner plays a role to attract the other partner but that creates attraction and doesn't fill their own needs. It gets a little complicated because large numbers of gays didn't mature out of healthy parental relationships. A distant dad or non existent dad is a common example. A young lad will be straight if raised by a dad to manhood. he can be like dad. If a boy is rejected, he may play out a fantasy with another male and never mature to manhood. He will more likely remain close to his mother.
Many lesbians have an unexplained hate for males. An outsider may see it as hurt and they hate males because they were rejected in a real or imagined way by daddy. It is a coping mechanism.
If I borrow an idea from Gary Smalley in Branson, the lack of attachment is often explained by uncovering their greatest fear. If a lesbian is fearing loss of a partner, they get tough, don't submit to prevent being hurt on the partner leaving as they always do. It becomes a predicted cycle.
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So are you saying that many homosexual men are that way from a disfunctional home?
Just trying to wrap my small brain around the discussion.
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